Life is all about moments - Rishabh Datta

Life is all about moments

Life is all about making few memorable moments. We shouldn’t wait for those moments, when there is a possibility of making them. We normally live like a normal human being, but if you aren’t making few moments that means you aren’t living as it should be.

At times we start expecting few things from our life and that’s the most awkward thing. We shouldn’t expect anything at any stage of our life, as we’re here to take it as it is. All we have is “Now”, then why we can’t make the most of this “Now”. Do whatever you want to do but “Do it right now”. May be you won’t get this “Now” back in the rest of your life ever.

Your life could be a perfect combination of few amazing moments if you want, so that you can die with few memories, not with dreams. For that you’ve to work hard to create those moments.

You shouldn’t give yourself that kind of an opportunity wherein you can mention, “I wish I did that”. In fact you should make up for something wherein you can mention, “Thank God I did that and I still can’t believe it”.

Now there are few things that can make a difference, first one is your approach. What I feel is a different approach with the same feel can really make a difference. All you’ve to consider about the possibilities to make that happen in a different way. I agree that sometimes you’ve to go with the flow, but still you can make a difference if your approach is unique.

Your life is so important and you should understand the value of it. You shouldn’t only live the life, when you can celebrate your life in your own way. At least you can do what you have to do, until you can do what you want to do. Just make sure you’re on the right track. Enjoy your life to the core and stay blessed.

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Want to get out of a relationship

Want to get out of a relationship

If you’re in a relationship and tired of such things then there are few things that you can try and come out of that relationship. That may help if you recently had a breakup. Sometimes we use to rush towards a relationship and later on we find that we aren’t going on the right direction. The point is once you get involved with someone, it’s quite difficult to move on.

There is no point imposing yourself to be in a relationship if you aren’t happy. Well you may try to do various things apart from being stuck over there:

  • You may go out with your old friends and watch some good movies, you can party with friends.
  • Try reading few amazing books of your taste.
  • You may explore few unseen places in order to occupy yourself.
  • Dress up for yourself and try shopping for your family members.
  • Start exploring Quora and start writing about your experiences.
  • Cook some food for your parents and loved ones.
  • You can invest your time in few sports or yoga activities.
  • You may try learning few new things as well in order to enhance your skills.

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How can we stay closer to God?

How can we stay closer to God?

How can we stay closer to God?

We always adopt so many things to stay closer to god but trust me if you’ll perform your duties with perfection, that’s also a way to stay closer to God. We always keep on thinking that the worship is the only way out to impress the almighty but I feel that’s not true. God doesn’t ever need worship, god always consider our intentions like how we’re treating others.

If you are respecting and serving your parents and grandparents properly then this is your biggest worship and prayer. Otherwise, if you are not respecting your family and are busy in the prayers of God, then it is of no use.

God never meets you in Temples and Gurudwaras because God is always there in your heart and you just need to sense that within your heart. If you fulfill all your deeds, with all your heart and without any selfishness, that is also a kind of worship.

So many gurus are trying to behave like God and spreading few wrong messages. I may be wrong but I feel such gurus can be a medium to convey your thoughts to God but can’t be equivalent to God.

If you really want to stay closer to god, so just go and serve the needy people and you’ll automatically get numerous blessings. I hope you all will keep this thing in your mind. Stay blessed.

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Falling in love after breakup

Possibilities of falling in love after breakup

Possibilities of falling in love after breakup:

Of course, it’s possible to fall in love after your breakup. All you have to do is blank yourself from your past. It’s not that easy but you’ve to give your 200% to survive happily. Life is too short for being sad.

Love is just a feeling and once you start finding someone of your type, it’s really easy to fall in love once again.

Understanding is more important than commitment.

Once you start feeling for someone, it’s really hard for you to stop but you should give it a try to balance yourself. There is nothing sweeter than forgiving someone for hurting you and there is nothing sweeter than spreading love. If you’re really hurt then it will really help you to fall in love again.

I may be wrong, but I feel one should try to fall in love immediately after a break up. That will really help you to forget that pain and that can make you feel better in so many ways. But make sure you’re taking a proper break to get yourself back on the track and you shouldn’t be guilty about whatever happened.

Love is unconditional, but you need to create few situations to make that successful.

Falling in love with the same person twice, could be beneficial as well as harmful. Because once you lose that person, you never get the “same person” back. That’s a fact!!!!!

Basically falling in love is something that you can never control but it depends on the situation. May be you two got stucked in a wrong situation and broke up but later on you realized that you can rethink about your partner. So that’s the best thing you can do rather than seeking out for few other options. Take your proper time to decide who is good for you and with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.

Every moment of your life is so precious so try not to spoil even a single second of it. In fact make the most of your life by spreading love, joy and happiness. Life is too short to hate anyone around you, so you should always stay happy and make everyone happy too.

Few qualities that you must have Rishabh Datta

Few qualities that you must have

Few qualities that you must have

Have faith in yourself

First of all, you should have faith in yourself that whatever you’re doing is right. You can solve so many issues, if you’ve self belief. And for that you should be an independent thinker.

Forgiveness

You must have the ability to forgive, no matter how hard the conditions are. The person who forgives is great in so many ways.

Learn from your own mistakes

You should always learn from your own mistakes, you can’t grow as an individual if you’re repeating the same twice. Keep those lessons with you forever; it may help you going further.

Love everyone but don’t hate anyone

Spread love as much as you can. There shouldn’t be any scope of hating anyone. If you can actually do that, you’re going to stay in so many hearts for really long time.

Truthfulness

No matter you’re right or wrong, you should always adopt Truthfulness. Nobody in this world can defeat you, if your basics are strong.

Say no to violence

Say no to violence in every case and you should always stay cool and calm. At times you can win so many things by using your patience what you can’t win from violence.

Take the initiative and complete it

If you’re planning about doing something, don’t delay. Do it right now. All you’ve to do is take the initiative and finish it in a flow.

Grab it whatever is coming your way

You should always grab it whatever is coming your way. Sometimes we use to wait for the better things to happen with us that go out of our hands from time to time.

Stay in your present

You should always stay in your present. You can consider your past just to make sure, how to go ahead towards your future.

I admit it’s really difficult to be totally perfect but still you can give it a try by following few things. Stay tuned for updates here and few more qualities that one should have.

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Idea of a perfect first date

Few important things if you’re going on a date for the first time

Don’t be so late

You should be really punctual if you’re meeting someone for the first time. This would really impact someone about your image. Confirm the time before meeting and place as well, that will really help you out.

Don’t behave casually, meet him/her with warm wordings

It’s really important to meet him/her with few warm words. Don’t behave so casually like that’s okay, not your first time like this. Decide when you’ll meet for the next time, this will let your partner know that you’re satisfied meeting him/her. You may go for a friendly hug that would show that you’re really happy to see your partner.

Maintain your smile and try to make eye contact most often

You should let your partner know that you’re having a great time by wearing your smile and try to make eye contact as well. Try not to force yourself for anything and your smile should be natural.

Talk more about yourself rather than anyone else

Talk more about yourself and don’t mention about someone else and importantly don’t make them realize that you’re superior to them. Try not to discuss about your past relationships as well. You may share few thoughts about your families, their views but don’t need to comment anything negative.

Don’t look too messy

You’ve to look really decent. Don’t carry yourself like a messy one. Give yourself proper time to get ready and gain your confidence.

Place your phone aside

First of all it’s really important to place your phone aside as this may distract your partner.

Try not to be dominating

Try not to be so dominating and act as per your partner’s need. This would really help you in the long run.

Don’t discuss about anything negative

You’ve to be really positive about each and everything you mention. Few people don’t like being negative at all, so try to avoid such things.

Don’t look at your watch too much

Try not to look at your watch, don’t let your partner know that you’re in hurry and you want to leave.

Don’t be so rude

Try not to be rude, this may be too embarrassing for your partner. Try not to use few words like, “I don’t care!”, “what do you want?” etc.

Try not to pretend someone that you are not

Be the same whoever you are and if you’re pretending to be someone else it may distract your partner.

Don’t get drunk

Drinks may spoil your moments, so try to avoid such things.

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Love is a game - Rishabh Datta

Love is a game – Rishabh Datta

Well if you feel love is a game, then make sure you both can play and win together. You can never win if you’re playing for yourself. If you deeply love someone then it’s so important for you to lose for your partner. The moment you’ll lose the game, right at that moment you’ll win your partner. So don’t take it as a sport, just let your partner win.

Now this is so important to mention here, that you can understand love as a game for both, but don’t play with anyone’s feelings as well.

You don’t have to be someone’s part-time and down-time. If they can’t be there for you all the time, then they aren’t even worth your favorite time. Be there for your partner; try to understand without even saying much.

Love is such a beautiful thing if you really understand with the depth of your heart. But it’s fading away nowadays. Feel the importance of love in your life and act as per your partner. That’s the only way you can win this game.

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Relationship Advice by Rishabh Datta

Relationship Advice by Rishabh Datta

Relationship Advice by Rishabh Datta

Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time along with patience and two people who badly want to be together.

If you are in a relationship, try to remember few things if you want a healthy relationship.

Try not to irritate

If you will keep irritating your partner on regular basis, then it would be really hard for you to hold your partner for so long.

Be honest to each other

If you want to survive for long time, then you shouldn’t hide anything from your partner. Just be honest and transparent no matter what.

Plan few sudden dates

Surprise your partner with few all of sudden dates and make your partner feel that he/she is so special.

Give space to each other

That’s the most important part for every relationship; couples should understand that they have separate life as well.

Respect each other’s decision

Just give your partner all the rights to take any decision on behalf of you.

Keep expressing your love

Keep expressing your love on regular intervals in so many ways. It could be in the form of whispering in your partner’s ears or something else whatever you feel like doing.

Be each other’s friend and best friend

If you’re each other’s best friend and accepting your partner’s friends then nobody can match your relationship.

Respect your partner in front of society

Respect is really important in every phase no matter what. So always respect your partner everywhere. Don’t try to make fun of your partner especially in society.

Accept each other’s interest and show your appreciation 

Well this is the most important phase, if you want to be in a healthy relationship. First of all accept your partner’s interest and show your appreciation and support other’s decision.

Surprise her with your decisions

It’s just amazing to give your partner few surprises.

Forget all the reasons why it won’t work and believe the only reason why it will. Stay blessed everyone. Rest it’s all about destiny and few advices won’t make that difference. This is just to make your relationship better, not to save your relationship. I hope this post about Relationship Advice will help you out.

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Secrets of studying - Rishabh Datta

Secrets of studying effectively

Secrets of studying effectivelyWhen should I start?

Now, don’t wait for the right time in your life. The right time is now!!!

We all use to wait for the right time and the right time goes out too quickly. So if you’re planning to start something, Do IT NOW!!!

Should I have a time table?

That’s not important. If you want to have a time table you can make one, but only if you’re following it regularly.

What should I start with?
We waste our time in this matter of what to start. For that make up your mind about your favorite chapter, that would help you to move further.

Do I need to start with “read subjects or do subjects?” (Theory or practical)

That’s all up to you, wherever you feel comfortable. But make sure one thing, don’t convert your practical subjects into theoretical ones.

Should I study by myself or in a group?

You should always study at your own, as you won’t get such good company all the time.

Where should I study?

You can study anywhere, if you’re so focused about your studies. Otherwise you can find peace anywhere in the corner of your house and then you may start.

How long should I study?

Well that’s all up to you, till the time you aren’t mentally stressed out, you can continue. After that you can take a nap for a while or have some light food and then start again. Make sure you’re sleeping enough to focus a bit more and sleeping for 6 hours is more than enough for that.

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